We’re back!

Nathan and I made it back from England late last night…mostly in one piece.   Other than a little spill from his wheelchair, everything went FANTASTIC!   We had the most extraordinary time while we were away! 

Our days looked something like this.  Wake up at 8 am.  Breakfast.  Shower and get ready to go.  By 9:30 am we took a 10 min. drive to the meditation center.  Then at 10am we’d have the first teaching.  We were in a room with about 50 other children and families so Nathan was very entertained just by watching everyone.  Other times he got a bit cranky so I used the DVD player so I could listen to the teaching.  Then we’d have lunch at noon.  Then a nap until about 3 pm.  Then snack and then we’d go to the 2nd teaching.  Then after that, we’d have dinner, and hang out with friends.  At 8:30 we’d have a prayer session, then we’d get back home at about 9:30 and in bed by 10pm.  It was so wonderful!  Nathan enjoyed this rhythm and I loved being immersed in a spiritual environment. 

It was the first time that I was by myself with Nathan for more than a couple of days.  At first I was afraid, terrified really.  Can I take care of  him on my own?  Can I carry him, bathe him, feed him, change him, every day and night, for 14 days?  I wasn’t sure I could do it but guess what – it went so well!!!  I was able to not only do all of those things for him, but I also did everything that I thought was important to do, including his Medek, giving him his medicine, and everything else.  Last year we went to England and it was a disaster – I wasn’t able to take care of him.  But this year I must be stronger because I was able to.  So this is the most important experience that I am bringing him – the confidence that I can take great care of him for an extended period of time.

So all is good in Nathan Dorje land! 

And guess what…tommorrow he turns 3 years old! Can you believe it!  I’ll write a longer birthday post tommorrow.

Thanks for checking in on us!

Anat Baniel in Santa Barbara

We are going to this workshop:

1 Day Workshop for Parents of  and Professionals Working With Special Needs Children
Santa Barbara, CA    August 29, 2009

In case anybody wants to come!

The Gypsy Life

I have exactlyt 3 minutes while Nathan watches a bit of Cars on YouTube and thought I’d write a quick update.  Nathan and I are having the time of our lives.  I’m enjoying the full-time mommyhood experience to no end – this is only the 2nd time that Nathan and I have been by ourselvces for a substantial period of time and it’s been WONDERFUL.  We’ve always had help taking care of Nathan and I am sincerely happy that I now get to take care of him by myself.  The timing is perfect. 

Both of us have a bit of gypsy energy and we love the whole idea of travelling around, living out of a suitcase, being out and about all day.   It’s just so cool to see how he’s thriving by the experience of having people around him all day!

The retreat has been FABULOUS!  He’s been happy during all the sessions because there are lots of children around.  I’m learning about acceptance and about ways of maintaining a peaceful mind.  I realize more and more what this journey with Nathan is all about and I am grateful for him every day.

I was afraid to take this trip with him by myself but so far it’s been one of the best things we’ve done together!