What’s cooking

Other than soggy vegetables and water logged brown rice – a whole bunch of stuff! These are the fruits of my labor this week:

* Nathan fell off his bed again last night. Just 2 days ago Owen was complaining about the bed rails I set up on his new bed. “Why do we need those, they’re so ugly, they’re uncomfortable, he doesn’t need them, he doesn’t move, you’re so paranoid, wah wah wah.” So last night he put Nathan to bed and didn’t put the rails up. At 2 AM I hear this loud THUNK and then WAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHH. So my huge belly and I ran to Nathan’s room. I could hear him crying, but I didn’t have my contacts in, so I couldn’t find him on his bed. Finally I found him on the floor pushed against the wall! The moment I picked him up he was okay so I don’t think he got hurt, and then he went right to sleep so I am sure he was fine. You better believe I woke Owen right up to emphasize how important it is for him to do as I say! I love it when I’m proven right – except I wish Nathan didn’t have to get hurt to prove it! LOL. He was okay though – no harm, no foul.

* Nathan is getting his Dynavox! After months of dealing with insurance and being disappointed, and keeping an eye on Craigslist, I found a used Vmax for an incredible price. The lady had just sold it when I called her, but today she called me back and said the other party backed out so we could have it. We should get it in a few days time!

* Today I picked a provider for ABA therapy. In California, after a child turns 3 year old, they no longer qualify for early intervention services. But if a child has a qualifying diagnosis, they continue to receive certain services through Regional Center. The main service Regional Center offers at this stage is ABA therapy (Applied Behavioral Analysis). This therapy is typically used for kids with autism or behavioral problems, but can also be used for kids with Cerebral Palsy. After calling about 20 agencies and talking to a lot of people, we picked an agency called Wellspring to become the service provider. I’ll talk more about this next week when I have a better idea of how it works.

* Now that Nathan is back and we’re planning on staying put for a while, I’m getting Nathan’s therapy schedule organized again. The main therapy will be Anat Baniel Method, which he will receive with a practitioner every day. Twice a week he will see a Rolfing practitioner, once a week hippotherapy, twice a week aquatic therapy. Once I find someone to do it, we will also start a CME home program. Finally, I ordered a cannula and will get him back to his daily HBOT dives at home.

* We’re one step closer to a “routine” at home. This week was Nathan’s first week back on his supplement regime. He already looks better – his cheeks are rosier and he seems to have more energy. Next week we’re starting B12 shots – I’m curious to see if they will help.

* Therapies I’m looking into: Masgutova method, Low Level Laser Therapy, Exercise with Oxygen therapy, and Whole Body Vibration therapy. I’ll write a post on each of them next week. This week turned out to be very informative, next week I’ll talk more about all of these things!

I don’t even know where time went this past week. Every hour seemed to mold into the next and the next. The difference between having Nathan here and having him away is amazing. The couple of weeks that I was home without Nathan were very different – I owned my time, did what I wanted when I wanted, relaxed. Having Nathan home is so different – more intense, more emotions, more living. It’s the difference between “existing” and “living”. Yes, having Nathan home meant having a little break down and being really busy and not being able to stop…but it also meant incredible joy and laughter and happiness.

Tomorrow – we’re off to have his Hart Walker adjusted (he’s grown so much) and then to Disneyland!

Let me tell you about…

…my shopping experience at Babies-R-Us yesterday.

I went to pick up one of the last things I needed for Belle – crib bedding. I picked this one up:

I got a couple of accessories to go with it:

Then, when I was checking out, the lady asked me if I wanted a Rewards card, so I said, sure, why not.

Then I got my total and was super excited – it was a lot less than I thought I would have to pay – but I figured it was due to the rewards card. But then I made the mistake?? of checking the receipt and noticed – OMG she forgot to charge the actual bedding set.

I told my mom and she was like, you have to go back and pay for it! But I have to admit… I soooo badly wanted to just turn the car on and drive away very very fast. Hehehehehe… I debated for a minute and then my conscience won and I went back and told the lady she’d almost given away a bedding set. She was amazed that I’d gone back. From the look on her face I don’t think she would’ve done the same thing if she was in my place!

What would you have done?

I’m glad I went back … but man oh man … I wish I didn’t have a conscience sometimes!

Bits 2

* I forgot to mention in my previous post- got the results of my bloodwork – no diabetes! I think the 2 bagels with cream cheese that I ate right before my glucose test didn’t help 😉 Fortunately everything is okay.

* I have put on 30 POUNDS since I started the pregnancy. 30 POUNDS. Unreal. And I was wrong yesterday, Belle doesn’t weight 5 lbs 3 oz, she weights 5 lbs 9 oz’s. She’s already almost 6 pounds, with 5 more weeks to go! They say babies put on a pound a week at the end..hhhmmmmm.

* Had the IEP today. Considering in the last 7 months Nathan has only been to school 27 days – there wasn’t too much to say 🙂 His teacher is focusing a LOT on implementing the MOVE program with him. He spends time every day in a class with kids that are mobile and verbal. Most of his goals he has already met – but we’ve decided to wait 3 more months to change them. And the teachers begged me to let him come to school for more than 5 days in a row 🙂 They were happy to hear we are going to “stay put” for at least a couple of months.

* It was weird to meet with a friendly team of people who are genuinely interested in helping Nathan. I was ready with guns blazing, but found that they are genuinely doing their best to meet Nathan’s needs. I left there with the oddest feeling – like I went expecting to participate in a boxing match, and instead found myself at a comedy show. Most importantly – Nathan is loved and loves everyone at his school.

* I think the comments function is broken on the site, I am trying to get it fixed.

Now I’m off to an early night – I’m TIRED!