The Dynavox

I forgot to share some excellent news – Nathan’s Dynavox trial has been approved!  He will get a dynavox in 2 week so we can “trial” it for 1 month!  Once you’re approved for a trial, it’s pretty much a given that he will be approved for his own device.  How Amazing!  I’ll post a video of him using it as soon as we have it.  If you haven’t seen him using it, here’s an example:

It took some wiggling and tickling to get the job done.  First we were told by our CCS rep that Nathan had to be enrolled in the CCS MTU to qualify for a dynavox.  So we went through the rigamarole of getting him enrolled.  Then we had to wait 30 days for an appointment to see their doctor.  After we saw their doctor I was told I had to wait for a signed dictation of the appointment so we could go on to the next step – the evaluation by the Augmentative Communication expert.  Well I started  calling them a week after the appointment, and was told I had to wait a bit.  Another week later – please keep waiting.  Another week – they had the document, but it wasn’t signed.  Another week, it would be signed next week.  Well you can imagine how furious I was that after 6 weeks, we still hadn’t moved past this stage!  I called PAI and spoke to one of their lawyers and was told I could disenroll him from the MTU and deal with their main office.  So I called the local MTU and told them to go to (insert any bad place you can think of).  I was HORRIFIED by the people at their MTU.  HORRIFIED. More on that later.

I was promptly assigned a new case worker and guess what – she was amazing!  The new lady is kind and smart and speaks good English (I can’t tell you what a difference this makes!).  Within a day we’d gotten all the paperwork sorted and 5 days from the day I called her, I got an email from Dynavox saying Nathan had been approved for the trial!

Perseverance pays!

Update

I’ve been getting daily updates from Owen on Nathan’s progress.  Owen isn’t very chatty so I don’t get as many details as I’d like…but he does say that Nathan is doing well.  Esther was very pleased at Nathan’s progress and is starting him on a new set of exercises.  He had a difficult time the first 2 days adapting to the exercises, but the last 2 days he did better.  Owen said Nathan is responding well and is doing new things.  I wish I could be more specific but that was all I was able to get out of Owen!

I will be flying to Canada Tues morning (we will be playing musical chairs) so I will give you a more detailed update on Wednesday, including video – I promise!  My pneumonia is almost gone now and I feel much better!  I am still very exhausted in general but at least my lungs feel clear and my tonsillis aren’t like softballs any more.

As much as I’ve missed Nathan and Owen, I’ve had a lovely few days.  It’s the first time in 3 years that I have been home alone!  With every passing day I feel more and more human, I remember more what it’s like to be myself.  I guess when Nathan was born I had to “activate” new neural networks to get by, and in getting by I forgot who I was before being a mother.  Having had almost 2 full weeks off of mommy duty have been a tremendously huge gift – I’ve remembered what I was like before.  It’s nice!

Part of me feels that I should be ashamed for admitting that I have enjoyed having time to myself.  But the other part of me acknowledges what a gift this is.  And ultimately, all of this will make me a better mother to Nathan.  The more happy, relaxed, peaceful I am – the more I can give him.  Instead of giving him mud, I can give him nectar.

I think this doesn’t just apply to SN moms.  I think every mommy should have at least a couple of days off to remember what it was like to just enjoy life – without the responsibility of another human being.  If I had a magic wand, I would appear a babysitting genie for all mothers so we can all have time off for a short while.

Anyways, I promise to give you a more thorough update on Nathan this coming Wednesday!

Step of Mind

A mom in one of  the Yahoo groups I read posted this video:

The website for the Israeli group working on this project is: Step of Mind

I love hearing about projects like this one!