Adaptations & Abilities Expo

The Ability Expo this weekend … TOTAL SUCCESS!

We got there early Saturday morning thinking we would need the entire day…it turns out we didn’t. The expo has a LOT of stuff but I think it’s mostly geared towards adults with disabilities. They had a few things for children but not too much – it seems to be mostly for people who have had accidents or injuries who can talk, sit upright, etc…Not so much for children with severe cerebral palsy. So there wasn’t too much to see that was applicable towards our situation.

But we did accomplish a couple of major goals:

While I was busy scouting around for wheelchairs and/or therapy equipment or devices to help Nathan gain more function, Owen found something entirely different:

Meet the Chill Out Chair

Nathan LOVES his little prince chair. We brought it home with us and he is HAPPY as can be. Finally he has a chair where he is fully supported, his head’s not flopping, where he is entirely and completely comfortable. It was a total SCORE.

From the same company, Freedom Concepts, we also found an adapted tricycle. At first I thought there was no way they’d have something that would just “work” for Nathan – I figured they’d have to custom-make one for him. But we tried him in the triciclye and it WORKED!

I posted this video yesterday but I’ll post it again today:

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And here are some pics of him trying it out at home with daddy:

I can’t tell you how happy I am to have something that Nathan can use that is both enjoyable to him and therapeutic! At the moment we have to push him in it, but I have no doubt he will learn to pedal it on his own in due time. My plan is to use this when we go to the mall, when we go to the park, and all sorts of places – so instead of sitting in a wheelchair, he can actually exercise while we’re out and about!

Another SCORE!

We also worked with the VP of Prime Engineering, the makers of the KidWalk. As it turns out, one of the parts on Nathan’s kidwalk was, and always has been, broken – which was making it that much harder for Nathan to move in it. We also didn’t have all the right components for it. He took the kidwalk with him and is going to switch out all of the parts that need switching and really customize it for Nathan, then mail it back to us by the end of the week.

Guess what? Yet another SCORE!

As you can see, these 3 things alone made for a super successful event for us.

A few other things that we learned/figured out at the expo:

* We saw a whole bunch of adapted vans and asked about van conversions. Our conclusion – there’s no way we’re going to tackle this any time soon. I didn’t like the side or rear conversions, as you lose a lot of space in the van. Plus they are VERY expensive! So my plan is to get a little ramp that I can manually attach to the back of our Toyota Sienna to wheel the wheelchair and trike into the car, and then to buy him a car seat that swivels out so he’s easy to load in and out of the car. My hope is that this will work for a few more years.

* The “ideal” wheelchair that I was looking for does not exist. Sunrise Medical was there (makers of the Zippie/Quickie/KidKart) and Convaid was there and a couple of others. What I realized – I really really don’t like any of those chairs and I think I made the right choice the first time with the Ormessa Bug. It’s light, maneuverable, and easy to take when we’re out and about. I’ve decided that, instead of going with something like the Zippie, I’m going to stick to the same style of chair. My three favorites for now are the Kids Fast, the next size up of the Ormesa Bug, or the Chunc 45. Here’s a pic of a little girl in the Chunc 45 . We are seeing Nathan’s DME supplier on Wednesday who will measure/fit him for a wheelchair – then we’ll take the necessary next steps. At the expo I did see some kids in their wheelchairs and saw some on display and at least it convinced me that what I want for Nathan doesn’t exist – lightweight, supportive, easy to transport, fun. So we’ll have to settle for one of the above.

The rest of the expo really wasn’t very interesting, and fortunately we were out of there and on our way home by 2 pm – which allowed us to grab the RV and head to the beach!

And one final adaptation, which is unrelated to the Abilities Expo.

Sue, from Grandma’s Babies, custom-made this chair for Nathan:

It took some tweaking but it’s getting there! What’s cool about it is that I can toss it in the car and take it with us when we are going somewhere just to eat or to chill – so I don’t have to load and unload the wheelchair. We’ve used it to go to the movie theater, to restaurants, and today – at Starbucks. I am also trying to set it up with a tray so I can attach it to any chair at home or at friend’s house and he can sit in it and play.

So we seem to be moving forward with giving Nathan the tools to “access” the world around him. Hooray!!!!

30

Today I turned 30 years old. I feel like I should say something profound. Instead I’ll settle for the truth.

The culmination of my 30 years in this planet is right here:

Would it sound rude if I said I’m disgustingly happy? Maybe fulfillingly happy would sound better? Incredibly happy? Thoroughly happy and fulfilled? Heart bursting at the seams happy? How can I not be?

My life is full of sillyness:

Smiles:

Love:

Enjoyment:

And Peace:

So many adventures to come:

And so much to look forward to:

To all of you who have shared this journey with me, THANK YOU. I feel so blessed for the people in my life. My family. My friends. All of you whom I’ve met in person, over the phone, for a few minutes or for many years. I couldn’t ask for more. I am incredibly, fully, disgustingly happy. THANK YOU.

Bits

* Nathan and Owen are on their way home right now! They finished 20 hours of intensive therapy and 10 HBOT dives. Plus they had a fantastic time hanging out together. I don’t think they missed me too much 🙂

* I had an OB appointment and Belle’s C-section is scheduled for Monday April 26th! We’re not sure of the time yet. I cannot believe that Isabelle will finally be here in 16 days! Today I felt her drop lower into my pelvis and she’s definitely head-down now according to the OB. I can’t begin to describe how excited I am!

* We’re back in full house redecoration mode. My wonderful mother and stepfather have been at the house almost every day this week helping to clean, paint, organize. Today we cleaned and organized the garage and it’s now a little therapy clinic! The change has been INCREDIBLE – I promise to put up pictures this week.

* Belle’s room is just about done. We have EVERYTHING ready for her – including diapers, pacifiers, clothes, blankets, stroller, car seat, hats, mitts…EVERYTHING. The only thing I have left to purchase is a double stroller. Erin, Fletcher’s mom, said it’s a MUST so I can hang around with both kids.

* In about 12 hours we’ll be at the Abilities Expo. Don’t worry – I’ll take lots of pictures! I’m going to be scouting out a lot of stuff – a new wheelchair, an adapted tricycle, communication stuff, lawyers, vehicle conversion info and ramps, and a few miscellaneous things we need. We’ll also be meeting with the manufacturers of the KidWalk so they can adjust / improve how it functions for Nathan.

* Our therapy plan for the next few weeks is as follows: every other week he’ll do ABM intensives – every day for 1 hour – with a trained practitioner (week on, week off, etc). Then in the late afternoons he’ll have 45 min’s of a CME home program, and 1 hour of ABR. Twice a week I’ll take him to a Rolfing practitioner. Once a week he’ll have Speech Therapy at home, and once a week he’ll have OT at home. In a couple of weeks he’ll start being evaluated for his ABA program – I’m starting the parent training portion of ABA next Tuesday. We’ll continue giving him his supplements, G-therapy, and B12 shots. Finally, I’ll do Quantum Reflex Integration (with the laser) with him twice a day for 15 min’s at a time. Oh, and I’m taking him next week to a guy who works on helping kids eliminate infant reflexes. He’s supposed to be a master of eliminating these reflexes and claims he can get rid of all of Nathan’s reflexes – ATNR, babinski, etc – in just a few sessions. So that’s the plan for the next 6 weeks or so. I have no idea if it’ll actually work – but at least it’s a plan! I’ve been working tirelessly to get everything lined up for him, so when Belle is here and taking up a lot of my time, Nathan will have a strong, stable routine.

* I can now say that I know how to cook! I never thought I’d see the day!

And with that…I better go downstairs to turn off my latest crock pot creation. I hope to put up some photos and videos of Nathan’s week and the expo this weekend! And I can’t believe I’ll be 30 years old so soon!!!!! Now if only I could convince Belle to share my birthday with me 😉